Common Decoys & Defenses in Discussions About Racism

Surrounding ourselves with like-minded people may feel good, but it doesn’t create social change. If we expect to dismantle racism we have a very specific job to do: effectively talking with others about racism, especially those with whom we disagree. Racism skeptics tend to be people with racial privilege, and since we are more likely to be influenced by our same-race peers, that means the majority of this work is up to white people.

Understanding common fallacies in reasoning can help us generate responses that guide our racial peers into mindset change. The tables below use examples of common reactions in discussions about racism from DiAngelo (2015), organized by the fallacy (or, error in logic) on which they rely, and a sample of responses that can be effective for fostering transformation.

How to Read the Tables

The first column in each table lists various statements that exemplify a particular type of fallacy. The second column interprets the underlying meaning of that statement. The third column lists a three step process for responding to any of the statements, which includes the following steps:

First, relate: Acting superior will cause your target to shut down, so emphasize that you are the same as them, and maybe even shared some of their beliefs at one time.

Then, share: Talk about something you learned that changed your mind. This is a teaching moment, but try not to make it sound like one- focus on yourself instead.

Finish by modeling: Demonstrate a growth mindset by explaining how you’ve changed, emphasizing that changing your mind was an opportunity to grow as a person, rather than a concession or loss.

The Fallacies

The False Dichotomy

This fallacy strives to exempt the denier from antiracist engagement by placing them on the opposite side of a false spectrum where racist is on one end and non-racist is on the other.

What they say: I am a good person. I treat everyone equally. I am not biased. What they mean: Racists are bad individuals, so you are saying that I am a bad person. Racism is simply personal prejudice. Racism is conscious bias. I am not aware of having any biases, therefore I am not racist. Your Response: Relating, Sharing, Modeling Like you, I also thought… my conscious beliefs and behaviors meant I was not racist. Then I learned… how we’re all socialized into racist beliefs without eve

The Appeal to Authority

This fallacy values the opinions of white people on matters of racism because of the deeply ingrained belief about their natural authority on all matters, even those about which they have no direct experience.

The Red Herring

This fallacy is used to distract from addressing racism by shifting the focus to other issues.

The Hasty Generalization

This fallacy attempts to excuse the perpetrator from playing an active role in dismantling racism by suggesting that a small amount of work equates to being finished.

The Straw Man

This fallacy oversimplifies and undermines the pervasiveness and systemic nature of racism.

Argument to Pity

This fallacy, which also goes by the technical name “Argumentum ad Misericordiam,” redirects the focus from how racism impacts people of color to a concern for the feelings of white people.

Ad Hominem

This fallacy attempts to attack the messenger, rather than attacking the problem.

How to Study the Chart

What They Say: Get familiar with the kinds of statements that signal each type of fallacy.

What They Mean: Understand the reasoning behind each statement. That’s what makes the statement a fallacy: it is based on false reasoning.

Response: Practice responses that debunk each fallacy, using a strategically sequenced strategy that fosters growth rather than triggers debate.

Finally, let go of the outcome. The majority of our attempts will fail, but that does not absolve us from doing our part each and every time the opportunity arises. Even if it seems like you were unable to foster transformation in the mindset of a racism skeptic in this particular moment, rest assured that your effort made the next person’s attempt a little easier, and that someone will eventually break through.




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