How to Call-In Common White Decoys in Discussions About Racism“How do I respond to white people who just don’t get it? These conversations are so frustrating!”Feb 17, 2021Feb 17, 2021
Dear Non-Black Teens of America…My black teenage daughter asked me to share this post of hers with you.Jun 3, 20201Jun 3, 20201
ICE Raid Guide for AlliesImmigration Customs Enforcement (ICE) is coming into our communities this weekend for a presidentially mandated “mass round up” of our…Jun 22, 2019Jun 22, 2019
13 Reasons Why… I Don’t Speak Up About the N-Word at My Child’s Middle SchoolI promised not to. My kid made me promise I wouldn’t contact parents or teachers about the fact that other kids freely use the n-word…Apr 13, 2019Apr 13, 2019
Allyship and the Principle of Cooperative EconomicsIf you are a white person striving to be a more effective and accountable ally in the upcoming year, the fourth day of Kwanzaa is a…Dec 29, 2018Dec 29, 2018
Three Things Every Antiracist Can Do This Thanksgiving (and Beyond)It’s Thanksgiving in the U.S., so you’re probably busy getting ready. As you check off the many items on your “to do” list, don’t forget…Nov 22, 2018Nov 22, 2018
Serena’s Latest Judgement Day: Thoughts From A Tennis MomStill nursing a hangover from Serena’s big upset, my family decided to try and shake it off with a friendly doubles match. As my husband…Sep 11, 2018Sep 11, 2018
Panning Out from the White Racial Lens: The Problem with PunctuationIn my former life as a relationship researcher I spent a great deal of time listening to couples describe the root of their conflicts. When…May 9, 2018May 9, 2018
Published inThe EstablishmentKids’ Misuse Of The Term ‘Racist’ Is Dangerous —So Let’s Disrupt ItAn adult who is reluctant to clearly and effectively correct such careless and damaging behavior by children is complicit.Feb 15, 20183Feb 15, 20183
Beginner’s Guide to Black History MonthWhether you’re conscious of the holes in your education or whether you didn’t even know they existed, it’s time to take responsibility.Feb 4, 2018Feb 4, 2018
